I went into the season excited to teach a little bit of volleyball skills to 18 young girls. Little did I know how much they would teach me, or how much my goals would change throughout the season! I learned that success is not about the skills of volleyball, it's:
- keeping an attention span for more than 5 minutes
- having a team huddle with no one commenting about coach's jewelry, biting someone else's hand, or singing
- having 16 girls in my house to make their own pizzas without burning down the house, breaking or spilling anything
- no one saying "I can't"
- seeing their face light up when they finally understand what I'm trying to say
- making it through practice without complaining
- not hearing "can I go to the bathroom?" when we're about to start a game
- no one asking "are we winning?", "is this the first game?", or "when will this be over?"
- hearing "Okay, Coach!"
- getting a smile out of a frustrated player
- remembering the difference between a job and a position
- being close to almost-in-base
- yelling "free ball" even if we don't transition
- making it through a game without making animal noises
- serving over the net
- getting a pass-set-hit
- giving 100% effort
- cheering when we do something right
- working together as a team
- having fun
No matter the definition of success, it's been fun. We went out with a bang, with one team finishing second in their division and the other taking first in theirs - I'm so proud of all of them! Thanks, girls for a great season!
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| Mid-Valley 12u Black Jordan (16), Jenna (7), Jasmine (6), Falute (3), Sydney, Megan (9), Sydney (2), Rhyan (4), Taylor (23), and Coach Trish |
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| Mid-Valley 12u Gold Paris (13), Gwen (1), Anna, Lexi(8), Me, Riley(15), Megan(14), Taylor(5), Caleigh(12), and Mikayla (11) |
| Both teams (minus the Taylors) at my house for a pizza party |

